Do you.

We often hear the phrase "Do what's best for you," but what does that really mean? In a society that constantly bombards us with messages about what we should be doing, it can be hard to tune out the noise and focus on what truly makes us happy. Today, Society will tell you that MONEY, BEAUTY, and FAME are what’s important. Everyone wants to be an influencer. Girls want to get nose jobs, boob jobs, lip injections, and fillers because that’s what social media tells you is important. But is that what’s important to YOU?

Doing what's best for you means making choices based on your own needs and desires, rather than what society says is best. This can be as simple as choosing a career path that aligns with your passions, even if it doesn't pay as well as a more "prestigious" job. Or choosing a college that’s the right fit for YOU, not what society says are the top schools. Maybe they have a name, but does it make it right for you? Nobody gives you time to think about what YOU want, where you want to go, what you want to major in, and how it will ultimately impact your life and your happiness.

Making choices that align with your values and goals can be daunting, especially when it goes against what others expect of you. But ultimately, it's your life to live, and you deserve to live it on your own terms. When you do what's best for you, you'll feel more fulfilled, happier, and more at peace with yourself and your decisions. This is much easier said than done. I work with so many girls who are trying to live up to expectations while maintaining their own sanity because it’s not what they want or choose. This will require setting boundaries. (More on that in next post).

So, take a moment to reflect on what truly matters to you. What are your values? What are your goals and aspirations? What makes you happy? What makes you angry? Then, make choices that align with those things, regardless of what society may say. Remember, you have the power to create the life you want. Don’t let social media dictate your life!